I grew up in New York and Atlanta but my parents moved to Selma when I was in my last year of Middle School. Imagine my angst and loneliness. I had a different accent, way of dressing, perspective, to sum it up—I did not belong. My father realized that I was struggling to fit in and find my place in the world. One night, he came into my room and gave me a book called “Excellence”. This book had a chapter on the value of positive visualization.
As a teenager, I remember scoffing to myself because how could a mere thought impact my life? But I always recalled that night and I had the chance to practice positive visualization the night before my first job interview out of college and I got the job.
In my twenties, I experienced a flurry of magical opportunities and I believed in the power of visualization. However, when I hit my thirties, I hit another juncture in my life and I faced many obstacles. In my forties, I know for sure that there is indeed a formula to experiencing a life filled with wonder, delight, and divine interventions. I nicknamed it “Fatima’s Formula for
- Believe in a higher power and yourself.
- Vision your ideal life every day.
- Change the station playing in your mind. Do you have negative thoughts? Do you beat yourself down?
- Learn how to say no so that you can say YES.
- Set goals.
- Develop an action plan.
- Evaluate your goals and plans monthly or at least quarterly.
- Surround yourself with people that exceed you and who open doors to new ways of thinking and being.
- Find your inner dolphin. Have fun every day.
- Face fear every day. If we live in our comfort zone, then we are not growing. What have you done today that made your palms sweat and your heart race?
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